I always wonder if many young women know what is peace of mind, half way through my drama filled Tuesday my next door neighbours decided to have one their many numerous fights. First off you have to understand the young woman involve in this Not Going Any Where Relationship. The apartment is a two bedroom which she shares with the person she desires and his brother and her child and their mother and no works except for the boys mother, and we are not talking about kids here it is hardback young men and young lady. Now Miss Thing was not living there when they moved in a few years aback , but all I know one day she is there and the first fight that I remembered was her slamming the front door and walking out saying “She is suppose to get a man to take care of her”. These fights have gone on mostly about money because far as she is concerned any monies she gives to her daughters father he has to pay her back. Needless to say she is eating , sleeping , drinking at said residence plus there is rent to be paid along with whatever bills there be. The arguements always ends with her love affection always and I mean always refering to her as a dog, a liar and she needs to leave there because he wants nothing to do with her. And as soon as she slams the door and walk out the next day she is back laughing and talking at the top of her voice . Have you no self esteem , no back bone , no pride , no sense of independence and what example are you setting for your daughter. I will keep saying it over and over again thank GOD for my parents for instilling pride and independence in me. Because the first time I was called a Dog and told to leave would be the last time . I don’t care if I have to spend the rest of my life alone but I would rather be alone and peaceful than be in a relationship , that belittles, hurt and embarrasses me.